Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Twosome Tuesday: Bridesmaids' Dresses

I mentioned our recent bridesmaid dress shopping trip yesterday, so now is as good a time as any to discuss this topic.                                                                                                                              
We are asking a lot of the bridesmaid dresses, as we have a lot of concerns and requirements.                                                                                                                              
As always, budget is a priority, and since much of the wedding parties are also family, the expenses come out of my purse.  For those not in the family, we don't want wedding participation to be a financial burden either.  We also hope that any money is well spent on something that can serve the wearer beyond the wedding day....So both attractive and comfortable to the owner, and is appropriate to events other than wedding.                                                                                                                                    
Of course, the suitability for 'wedding' is still important, and the bride must also be happy with the look.  This creates some tension when the bride and the attendants have differing style preferences and personal standards concerning length, fit, and details like strapless vs sleeves.                                                                                                                                        
An additional challenge is that both sets of brides and grooms chose navy blue as one of their main wedding colors, and both want gray on the men.  Where it is tempting, from the financial side, to use some of the same clothes at both weddings, we don't want 2 sets of professional photos, a rare blessing, of the family wearing the same clothing for both!                                                                                          
#1)  Princess Sassy made the bridesmaid attire question a little easier by having only 1 attendant stand up with her (Princess Bossy), and choosing a dress for her that we already own.  Easy to check that off, and $0 expenditure.  She is hoping I'll be in something that coordinates with the wedding colors of navy and gray, but does not feel it's necessary for her younger sisters to match exactly, as long as what they choose looks nice in the family photos, and is, of course, appropriate to the semi-formal event.                                                                             
#2)  Princess Bossy has decided to have all of her sisters, and her best friend in her wedding to Prince Helium.  Princess Sassy will be married by then, so will be her Matron of Honor.  Her best friend will be Maid of Honor, and the 2 younger princesses will be bridesmaids.  Her initial plan was to have the 2 or 3 older girls all in navy, but in dresses of different styles as would suit each individually.  She envisioned her youngest sister in a navy print...possibly with a hint of soft orange to go with the flowers and the other main wedding color, which will be displayed on her wedding gown in a sash and other decoration.                                                                                                                                
However, navy dresses were proving difficult to find, especially when searching to suit all the body types, stay formal enough but be something that could be warn later (no shiny), and fit the modest budget.  Her solution to the problem was to add teal as another wedding color.  That new plan would have the friend in navy, Princess Sassy in teal, Princess Artiste as the link between 
in a print with teal and navy, then have Princess Eager in navy with white dots, or some other pattern suitable to her age, but that wouldn't compete with Princess Artiste's floral dress.                                                                                                                                                                 
We currently have quite a pile of dresses, working toward both the all-navy and the navy and teal plans...    Kind of keeping all the balls in the air until a complete set satisfies the bride.  Thankfully, there are a lot of sales on right now...after prom and with the change of seasons.                                                                
We seem to finally have dresses with which all girls involved seem happy.  I now have complete confidence we'll have this decided soon.


Additional note:  If you're in the market for a dress, I have to say that in our experience, JC Penney is the place to go!  Macy's has more navy, but for overall selection, price, nice fit and features, and material and construction quality, JC Penney has offered us the most options and the best hope.

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laxsupermom · 716 weeks ago

I love that your daughters are such good friends that they want each other to stand up for them at their respective weddings. Love the addition of teal to the mix. So pretty, and easily re-wearable. Love this series! Thanks for sharing.
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I know navy is the chic color coming for the next season but I think teal or turquoise is so stunning and useful. But either blue will be good and the advantage is that it looks good on most. DD's BF friend had orange dresses with a ruffle under the armpit. Talk about a tough sell. Somehow I've missed the timing of the two weddings so perhaps I can catch up on it at some point.
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JC lovingcolor · 716 weeks ago

Oooh! Love the pile of dresses. For the larger wedding party, I do think the flow of color is much more interesting and pretty than if all the girls were in navy. It looks designed rather than selected.
Oh, dear...Orange and ruffly! What some brides ask of their friends...

I would be all for the flow of color and pattern if it weren't for the orange that's supposed to be mixed into that wedding. Orange and blue was going to need a careful balance and shade selection as it was. Not sure if it will be too wild with the color mixture. But it's not my worry...It's all up to the bride and her vision. Now if I could only get the two M's of Honor to try on the potential dresses, so we could move forward... Schedules get too busy and hard to coordinate.

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