Saturday, July 23, 2011

Lesson Learned...Live a Little

Moms can look good, too.  I have discovered a little about spending on myself during the weddings-prep journey.  I can have a little fun and do something nice for myself without breaking the family bank.

The old stand-bys
During my too-many shopping trips, I found some nice dresses on clearance racks for $13 to $25, that I picked up for wearing to rehearsals, showers and other weddings we have to attend this summer.  So WHY have I gone, literally, years with only a couple dresses in my closet from which to choose?!  I have also found pretty and useful shoes between $20 and $35.  Hubby is very OK with me spending $20 to $30 every month or two to add to my wardrobe.  It's fun for him to see me in something new, too.

Also, more time spent seeing what's out there, and the opportunity to have more dresses, has opened my eyes to new options and greater variety.  I am having fun stepping out of my box and away from my 'look like that all the time' choices. Not every selection has to fit every occasion.

$24.  Great for a friend's son's wedding, and
anything else a little dressy.

$13. Wedding #1 rehearsal & the dinner at a fairly
casual restaurant.  Summery & fun, similar in tone
to Princess Sassy's choice for that evening
















$22.  SO comfy.  Totally unlike my normal
choices, but really fun to wear to the joint
bridal shower for both princesses.










$22.  Another fun & comfy choice. These will go with two of the above
dresses, making them suitable for our niece's wedding in her
grandparents' field, or a for a summer outing almost anywhere.  









$35.  These will go with all the above dressees,
making them suitable
for dinners, weddings, or anything
 evening/semi-formal.










$9.  I usually have 1 purse & use it 'til it's well past its prime.
My previous one was ORANGE.  This will be more neutral,
while still a fun color.  (I had a gorgeous red purse

a few years ago.  After that, I couldn't go back to black or
brown, and have had yellow, green, and the orange...
So it was blue's turn!)

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JC orangepurse · 715 weeks ago

Sometimes it's scary. On most people's scales we're very different. We're so similar where it counts!!
2 replies · active 715 weeks ago
So you mean that even if you'd written this post, you suspect that about a year from now if someone asked, you probably wouldn't have bought anything more for yourself... Because every time you have something in your hands to buy, the kids need something, and even though your choices are a good price, you don't want to add any more to the bill... Or there are so many other ways you can think of that you need to spend the money, and after all, you just got new clothes a year ago, so you really don't need it anyway? :-D
Or do you mean you might wear some not unattractive, but fairly safe clothes, and carry a colorful purse that shows there might be some noise behind the quiet? --Or maybe just gives the impression that you just are too lazy and cheap to change purses to coordinate...
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laxsupermom · 715 weeks ago

Love those sheath dresses! I love checking out the clearance racks for those hidden treasures. Those dresses are so versatile, and your shoes are super cute! Thanks for sharing.
My recent post Banh Mi
1 reply · active 715 weeks ago
I don't think I've ever had a sheath dress before...or those large prints. But they're new found fun. :-)
Love the black skirt and the dresses! Fun and functional. Great finds!
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There are so many more nice dresses now -- so enjoy it while it lasts! Love the choices of the shoes. I also think a basic clutch bag would be great to have for evenings out. Gives the day bag a rest. Great choices of prints, too.
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I'm behind you on the purse colors. When I broke from flack, I went orange and, now, green. The green really is past it's prime so It sounds like yellow or red are next in line. :) Love the dresses! And they look great on you.

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